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You promised you would never sound like them. It came out anyway.

You promised you would never sound like them. It came out anyway.

The promise never to sound like them was made by the thinking part of you. The voice comes from elsewhere.

Growth
Sep 26, 2026
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The cold plunge trains you for the wrong kind of shock

The cold plunge trains you for the wrong kind of shock

Cold water trains you to override a reflex. Most of what keeps people awake is a prediction.

Life
Sep 25, 2026
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Feeling less is not the same as feeling better

Feeling less is not the same as feeling better

Turning the volume down on your feelings is not the same as changing what is producing them.

Musings
Sep 24, 2026
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The glass that tells you the day is over

The glass that tells you the day is over

For a lot of people the evening drink is not the point. It is the only door out of the day.

Growth
Sep 23, 2026
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Everyone is reachable now, and nobody picks up

Everyone is reachable now, and nobody picks up

A call is the last ordinary form of contact you cannot edit. That is the part being avoided.

Life
Sep 22, 2026
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The Sunday that starts on Saturday afternoon

The Sunday that starts on Saturday afternoon

The feeling arrives long before Monday does, and changing jobs does not always take it with you.

Musings
Sep 21, 2026
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